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Between Memory and Remembrance

How Modern Life Is Changing Our Relationship with the Qur’ān

Imam Marc Manley ·
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The opening passages of Sūrat Yūnus and Sūrat al-Sajdah share several themes, including Allāh’s creation of the heavens and the earth, His governance of all affairs, and the repeated invitation to remember Him. This repetition in the Qur’ān serves an important purpose. By encountering the same ideas in different passages, sometimes expressed in slightly different language, we begin to recognize their relationships and develop a more coherent understanding of the Qur’ān. This leads to an important distinction between memory and remembrance (dhikr). Memory allows us to recall information and experiences, while remembrance gives those experiences meaning by connecting them to our awareness of Allāh. The Qur’ān repeatedly invites us to engage in this process through the question, أَفَلَا تَتَذَكَّرُونَ (Will you not remember?), encouraging a form of reflection that continues beyond the immediate moment of reading or listening.

Modern life presents particular difficulties for this kind of remembrance. Social media, continuous stimulation, and the fragmentation of our attention make it increasingly difficult to connect individual experiences into something meaningful. We may spend hours consuming religious lectures and short videos without retaining much of what we have encountered or allowing it to influence our behavior. This problem extends to religious education more generally, where passive listening can become a substitute for serious intellectual engagement. The Islamic scholarly tradition offers an extraordinary body of knowledge, but benefiting from it requires active participation through reading, study, reflection, and the application of what we learn. The relationship between experience, memory, and remembrance is therefore essential: our experiences become meaningful memories when we reflect upon them, and those memories become a source of guidance when they influence our actions.

The conversation also considers how our modern obsession with efficiency has affected our relationship with time and religious practice. Efficiency has become an unquestioned virtue, even though many of the most meaningful human activities, including worship, learning, and spending time with those we love, require patience and sustained attention. Islam places considerable emphasis on consistency, and the rhythms of prayer offer a way of organizing daily life around our relationship with Allāh rather than the demands of productivity. Living consciously as created beings, whose existence and circumstances are governed by a Creator, changes how we experience ordinary life. Prayer, work, relationships, difficulties, and even our mistakes become occasions for remembrance and appropriate action. The larger concern throughout this discussion is how we might recover a more integrated way of living, in which our experiences, memories, religious knowledge, and daily actions contribute to a life shaped by the remembrance of Allāh.

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  • Dhikr
  • Tadabbur
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  • Modernity
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Imam Marc Manley

Resident Imam, Middle Ground · Host of the Middle Ground Podcast